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I used to be a software engineer, and though I was successful in that career, I struggled significantly with anxiety, stress, and burnout. It became clear I needed to prioritize my mental health, and to seek the connection, aliveness, and adventure that I craved.

My life changed when I discovered the world of tantra, dance, and healing arts. I had not known how much more connection, peace, and pleasure was possible until I experienced it myself. Since then, it’s become my goal to share these beautiful practices with the world. I believe it is so important to exit the stress response of our nervous systems, and to reconnect with our bodies, ourselves, and each other. I am especially equipped to help those with stressful lifestyles access a deeper sense of relaxation, play, and presence in their lives.

I am especially interested in the notion of embodiment. Embodiment, to me, means coming into deeper awareness of the present moment through the sensations of our bodies. I have studied a range of practices whose power can be truly hard to describe in words, as they happen at a level beyond them — perhaps best described as magic, mystery, love.

While I have spent countless hours in workshops and trainings, I believe that what makes me special cannot be taught in a class: my authentic presence. My embodied touch, my exuberant sensuality, my and my grounding energy, will be like nothing you have ever experienced. Every encounter I have is unique, as our individual energies meet and combine into something new. We will have time to check in about about boundaries, safety, and communication agreements so we both can feel at ease. It’s my goal to create a safe and affirming container for our time together.

I also speak near fluent French, having spent time living abroad in France and Canada. I would love to share the beauty of the French language with you, whispering sweet soft words in your ear… veux-tu que je fasse ça? I speak just a little bit of Spanish and German as well, and minored in Arabic in college. I love to travel, especially in good company, and I specialize in designing "Pleasure Retreats", curated experiences where every detail is thought through to bring us into deep connection and relaxation.

When I’m not traveling or dancing, I’m engaging with my many other hobbies. My adventurous streak often draws me me to the outdoors, where I love to hike, swim, camp, and marvel at the wonders of nature. I'm a fairly strong skier and love to hit the slopes in the winter. And I enjoy the cozy pleasures of relaxing at home — hot steamy showers, strategy games, and cuddles are some of my favorite things. My wishlist will also give you a sense of more of my interests!

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With my background in software, I take professional pride in protecting our privacy. I use an end-to-end encrypted contact form, encrypted email and phone, and a series of M4A, local password managers, and pass phrases that exist only in my head, in order to safeguard discretion. I am NDA-friendly, and if privacy is especially important to you, let me know. While other providers, even established ones, often use gmail, you can trust that privacy is just one of the many ways I go above and beyond to provide an exceptional experience.

I require a deposit for all bookings. Deposits are non-refundable, except in the very rare case that I have to cancel and cannot reschedule. I offer several discreet forms of payment, including Bitcoin.

Screening is required for all new acquaintances.

Massachusetts: Boston, Cambridge, Northampton, Martha's Vineyard, Nantucket, Cape Cod

Vermont: Burlington, anywhere there is snow

Connecticut: Hartford, Stamford

Maine: Portland

New Hampshire: Concord, Manchester

New York: New York City, Long Island

California: San Fransisco, Palo Alto

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